How to Start Homeschooling: A Simple Guide for Parents

Thinking about homeschooling can feel overwhelming... but it doesn’t have to be. This guide will walk you through the key first steps so you can move from “Where do I even start?” to “I’ve got this.”

Clarify Your Why

Before you buy a single book or withdraw your child from school, spend time defining why you’re considering homeschooling. Is it for faith reasons? Academic flexibility? Safety? Family time? All of the above?

Write it down. This will guide your decisions when things feel hard or confusing.

Learn Your State’s Laws

Every state has its own homeschooling regulations. Some are very simple (just a letter of intent), while others require paperwork, testing, or recordkeeping.

• Search “homeschool laws [your state]” or visit the Home School Legal Defense Association (HSLDA) website.

• Make a quick checklist of what’s required for your area.

Knowing the rules gives you confidence and keeps you compliant.

Picture Your Child’s Learning Style

Think about how your child learns best - visually, hands-on, reading/writing, discussion-based, or a mix. This will help you choose resources that actually work for them instead of fighting constant frustration.

Explore Curriculum Options (But Don’t Panic)

There are thousands of programs out there, from boxed curriculum sets to online classes to “build your own.”

• Borrow or preview materials from local homeschool groups or online forums.

• Remember: there’s no “one-size-fits-all” - what works for your friend’s child may not work for yours.

Start simple. You can always adjust later.

Plan Your Daily Rhythm, Not a Bell Schedule

Homeschooling doesn’t have to mimic public school hours. Create a rhythm that fits your family’s life - mornings for core subjects, afternoons for projects, evenings for reading with Dad, etc.

It’s okay to start with the basics (math, reading, writing) and build from there.

Connect With Other Homeschool Families

Support is everything. Look for:

• Local co-ops or playgroups.

• Online communities and Facebook groups.

• Community classes (YMCA, library, art studio, etc.).

You’ll find encouragement, resources, and friends for both you and your kids.

Give Yourself Grace

The first year is about learning what works - for you and your child. Expect some trial and error. You’re not failing; you’re fine-tuning.
Celebrate the small wins. Focus on relationships and a love of learning. The rest will come.

Keep Your Long-Term Vision in Front of You

Revisit your “why” often. Ask yourself, “Is this leading us toward the kind of adult I hope my child becomes?” That question will guide your decisions more than any curriculum review.

Take the Next Step Today

You don’t have to do everything at once. Start with one small action:

• Research your state’s laws.

• Visit a homeschool group.

• Read a post on Homeschool Unshaken.

• Email me at contact@homeschoolunshaken.com with your top question.

You’ve got this. And you’re not alone.